I have a visceral aversion to older single women, but a financial attraction to them. Recently, I started dating a woman, let's call her Ms. H. She's 30, successful in her career, owns her own education company, and comes from a well-off family; both her parents are retired from state-owned enterprises. We got along quite well and had a few meals together. A few days ago, we met for dinner near her house, about a 40-minute drive away. I informed her on the way, and even waited for her for half an hour after I arrived. We had a Japanese set meal for 1280 yuan. Ms. H seems to have connections and social resources. She mentioned having been to many high-end restaurants and seemed to know quite a few business owners. She's also efficient and decisive. However, her downside is a lack of customer service awareness. Having spent so much time with abstract concepts like Web3, I feel like anyone over 25 who's into Web2 is an old fogey. If you date an older woman, anyone with even a little maturity will pamper you like a baby. I feel like older single women are like female college students looking for sugar daddies. Physiological aversion, financial attraction. After all, Ms. H is the ideal partner for a blended family to build a good life together, but can you really be happy looking at her every day?

No, you changed it again???

Have you ever compiled statistics on how many dates you've had in 25 years, how much money you've spent, how many times you've been successful, and what your success rate is?

@grok, draw a picture of Feng Wuxiang marrying a mature female finance professional in a luxury hotel in Dubai, with crypto bigwigs coming to congratulate them.

Kuroko

A man in his forties, still spending all his time researching dating?