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Let me tell you a really harsh truth: good-looking people are actually not suited for working. Being good-looking is an absolute advantage anywhere, but in the workplace, it's a huge disadvantage. Observe carefully: those who get promoted fastest in the workplace are mostly people with a more down-to-earth appearance. Men are mostly steady and ordinary, even with a somewhat imposing presence; women are generally mature and composed, not looking young. Those who are exceptionally good-looking are basically used as filler or decorative objects. Why is this? Because if you're good-looking, you'll inevitably attract attention. The opposite sex will unconsciously gravitate towards you. Do you accept those unwanted advances? Let me tell you, whether you accept them or not, you're shrinking your social circle. Managers with ulterior motives will target you. If you accept, you'll be isolated and looked down upon by the entire company. If you don't accept, your path to advancement is basically cut off. You either silently endure the hardship or are eventually forced to leave. Even upright leaders won't dare get too close to you, fearing gossip and jeopardizing their own careers, so they simply distance themselves. Same-sex leaders are even harder to deal with. If they take you out to meet people, and you look better than them, and your abilities are on display, you'll steal the spotlight. They're constantly worried about you getting promoted or being poached, so how could they genuinely mentor you? As for colleagues at the same level, it goes without saying. Everyone has jealousy, and it's easy for them to band together and exclude you. You might be stabbed in the back before you even realize it. Let me emphasize again, this isn't just about women; men are the same, especially if your superior is around your age and has a high opinion of themselves. If you're too handsome, they genuinely can't tolerate you. Men's possessiveness and vanity are sometimes stronger than women's. So, what should good-looking people do? First, you need to look for the reasons within yourself. Subjectively, you haven't done anything wrong, but objectively, there are problems. The biggest problem is that you're good-looking, and you know it yourself. Good-looking people are often pampered from a young age, which can easily lead to a sense of superiority in the workplace. They might dress extravagantly, making others immediately think they're trying to make a living off their looks. You must learn to be good-looking without realizing it, be extremely low-key, dress simply, focus solely on your work, and only talk about work, not personal relationships. Be like an emotionless robot, making others feel you pose no threat and are only interested in making money. Also, cultivate some external connections to prevent others from bullying you. If you really can't adapt to the workplace, just leave. The outside world is actually much more forgiving of good-looking people.

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