"Soap and Cake" Soap: My mom started talking about her sad past today. She mentioned that when she first married into my dad's family, they were poor. My dad went to work, and his company gave him a bar of soap every month. Suddenly, they discovered that the soap was missing one month. After searching for a long time, they found that my grandma had taken it. My mom tried to take the soap back. My grandma said: "I took my son's soap, not yours!" My mom was stunned and couldn't refute it for a moment. She could only wash the clothes without soap. She held a grudge for 30-40 years because of a bar of soap. She still feels wronged. My grandma also talked about her sad past when she was young. She said that when she first married into my grandpa's family, it was during a famine. The family finally managed to bake a large pancake. Before my grandma could even eat it, my grandpa took it out and invited the relatives and neighbors in the village to eat. In the end, my grandma and the children didn't get enough to eat. My grandma resented my grandpa for neglecting the family and his wife and children. She held a grudge for almost 60-70 years because of a pancake. She still feels wronged. My silly brother asked my silly sister-in-law: What do you think of this soap and pancake? My silly sister-in-law, scrolling through her phone, laughed and said: These are all trivial matters, far less than the hurt you caused me. My silly brother laughed and said: Look at the way you eat!