One of the biggest red flags is a lack of curiosity, or boredom.
Fellow traveler, do you not realize how amazing everything is? How miraculous that there are hard problems and unsolved questions and things our brightest minds admit to not knowing the answer to? And that we have the privilege of consciousness to marvel at the stars and their mysteries?
If you are not seeking wisdom, I don't know what to tell you, but there's a possibility you are wasting our limited opportunity to experience this time.
Certainly; things can be miserable and stressful and insufficient. Without a doubt. But such is life. Best we can do is do our best to get through the day, and spend lots of time reading and asking the hard questions if you can.
Incredibly grateful to have the opportunity to seek wisdom in this time! 😸🙏