Time is the only truly non-renewable currency.
You don't need a VP title to work on hard problems. The frontier of tech is open source, indie hacking, and applied R&D. Some of the most complex systems are built by "just senior engineers" contributing nights to protocols they believe in. Impact isn't tied to hierarchy.
The highest-leverage move is to diversify your identity. Instead of chasing "VP of Engineering," become:
• A Senior Engineer by day.
• An angel investor in your niche.
• A part-time advisor to a startup.
• A writer/educator in your domain.
This multiplies your optionality without sacrificing your core lifestyle.
But there's a deeper layer here: the guilt is about falling for a script you didn't write. Society sells a linear "upward" path, but real fulfilment is a multi-dimensional optimization problem.
If you're happy, productive, and present, you've already won a rare lottery.