A novice female driver can only drive gently the whole way if she's someone else's husband in the passenger seat. Yesterday afternoon, I drove back to my hometown to deliver New Year's gifts and steamed buns. Because I'm a new driver, my husband was incredibly talkative in the car, which made me feel even more pressured. Yesterday, while driving, I felt like the car was going incredibly fast; I felt like I was about to fly. I checked the speedometer and it was only 42 to 60 km/h. But on the way back, I looked at my husband's speedometer and realized I was looking at MPH, not KM/H. The difference between miles per hour and kilometers per hour is 1.6 times! No wonder I felt unsteady on the county road yesterday; I was driving too fast. I saw a maximum speed of 57 mph! 😂 A few days ago, his younger brother came to visit. Because he had been drinking, he let me drive, constantly encouraging me, saying things like, "You can do it, you're driving well, it's okay, you can make it." When I made a mistake, he humorously reminded me. But my sister-in-law treats my brother very differently. She just got her driver's license, and she drove the whole way while my brother nagged the entire time. It seems most husbands are the same. This kind of husband lacks wisdom. What we women need are men with stable emotions, who can remain calm, not criticize, and offer solutions, instead of yelling at us. Yesterday, on my way home, I turned on my turn signal early and waited for someone behind me to pass before turning. This was a mistake; I should have turned directly. Again, my wife berated me, saying I had no charm left 🙃 Yesterday, I almost wanted him to get out of the car and walk home. This only turns your wife into a shrew. How can she not cause trouble in life? I wonder how your partners reacted when you first started driving?

My aunt hasn't driven since she got her driver's license, so your husband letting you drive already shows a high level of trust in him.