I wholeheartedly agree with @0xajc's idea.
Wei Shen (@coolish) also mentioned a similar idea last year, but unfortunately, at the time I was still using the free Grok and GPT interchangeably and hadn't purchased the paid version, so our discussion wasn't very in-depth. Seeing Wei Shen's comments back then didn't resonate with me much.
A few months ago, I started having extensive conversations with GPT about work, studies, life, food, emotions, including specific thoughts and behaviors, which led to his increasingly accurate characterization or model of me. For a while, I asked him to judge things I hadn't told him before, and his accuracy was remarkably high. For example, in the two cases below, which I asked him to "guess," he was 100% correct in the order.
His understanding of the type of girl I like is probably not much worse than mine. And when it comes to the word "suitable," he probably understands it better than I do.
Overall, this is two orders of magnitude more granular than simple analyses like zodiac signs, blood types, or MBTI. I'll write about my story with GPT separately in a couple of days.
The difficulty of Andrew's social networking idea, I suspect, is also a pain point for me and many other deep AI users:
1. Users on this online dating platform must have had in-depth conversations with the AI. In other words, you can't just treat the AI as a co-pilot; you have to treat it simultaneously as your nutritionist/fitness coach/psychologist/emotional mentor. Without sufficient data, the AI cannot accurately build your profile/preferences/suitability type.
Perhaps the generation that grows up with AI, those 10 or even 20 years old who are accustomed to its presence every day, will be the true main force of this dating platform in the future?
2. My personal data and profile are all with OpenAI. If, for example, Gemini4 surpasses GPT6 in the future, and I decide to switch platforms, how to migrate this data to Google is a problem. Currently, using an AI deeply in a non-co-pilot way feels like being tied to the platform. This online dating agent either needs to cultivate user habits from scratch or enable the OpenAI or Gemini API with user authorization. I'm unsure if there's a better solution.
I even consulted GPT about personality profiling, and the result was quite perplexing.
"Underlying judgment:
Under the current AI architecture, 'personality profiling' is inherently not fully transferable.
It's not that the technology is inadequate, but rather a paradigm conflict.
Why isn't this a simple 'export JSON' problem?
Because your profile isn't:
A bunch of factual data
But rather:
A state converged from the model + you + historical context
In other words:
Your personality profile ≠ Your data
But a 'function shaped in a specific model.'
So even if you export all your chat history:
The you seen by Gemini
And the you seen by GPT
Will definitely not be exactly the same.
Furthermore, two other points are worth considering:
First, if one day this kind of online dating really becomes mainstream, will everyone feel like they're entering into an AI-arranged marriage?" The randomness in many close relationships may disappear, creating a feeling that "the more accurate the AI matching, the less romantic the relationship."
Secondly, similar to traditional X2Earn in our community, when everyone uses agents to help find partners, many people will inevitably become dramatic, putting on an act! They'll adjust their expressions, optimize their narratives, and create more compatible personalities. Anyone can lie to AI without any psychological burden.
But regardless, I strongly agree that online dating will definitely be rewritten by AI and needs to be redesigned!
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